I was told years ago by one of my chefs to be a leader instead of a manager. She said that anyone can manage but it takes a lot more character and strength to be a leader. I don’t know if I’ve accomplished that, what I know is that on any given decision-making moment at work my objective is always leadership. Every so often I hit the mark and certainly there are times when I probably miss by a mile. She also told me to groom people to become leaders as opposed to managers. She said that in leadership, expectations are higher, overall vision has more clarity, and the big picture is bigger.

Last night was a big night for us in the kitchen. We had a scheduled event for 250 VIP guests, seated served, three-course dinner. We prepared for this event for weeks. The kitchen was right on schedule and the FOH team had the beautiful outdoor dining set up on the plaza like it was nobody’s business. Things were going according to plan, everyone was calm and pumped at the same time. Then the rain came without warning. Part of the kitchen set up was soaked with L.A. rain water, but the dining area was destroyed and couldn’t be recovered in time even with all the hands we had. We had to come up with a plan B on the spot all the while being showered with rain that wasn’t predicted by the Siri, Alexa, or any weather channels in Los Angeles. As this was happening, I looked at my iPhone to check the weather and it still showed sunny, 88 degrees, no sign of rain. I couldn’t get upset as it was something out of my control. The plan B was established. The dining area and food set up was moved to a different location. The team refocused calmly, followed directions and got busy. Communication happened between all team members all night. Leadership and teamwork manifested itself in all the efforts and by every single person on the team.

As the plan was orchestrated and executed, I was caught in an emotional moment. I looked at the team I now belong and felt fortunate. This is us. And we are beautiful and flawed, but mostly beautiful and resilient. We are good and will always be good no matter what. Although the forces of nature altered last night’s blueprint without warning, I was in awe that the level of professionalism and quality of work didn’t change. I am proud and grateful to work alongside these beautiful and wonderful folks.